the little rules of action.
Hello peeps,
Too often, we get stuck in inaction — the dilemma of doubt, perfectionism, and distractions and planning that stop us from moving forward.
And while I’m no proponent of a whirling buzz of activity, I also believe people get lost in the distractions of the world and lose sight of what’s important and how to actually accomplish their Something Amazing.
And so today, I’d like to humbly present a few little rules of action — just some small reminders, things I’ve found useful but by no means invented, common-sense stuff that is often not common enough.
1. Don’t overthink. Too much thinking often results in getting stuck in going in circles. Some consideration is reasonable — it’s good to have a clear picture of where you’re going or why you’re doing this — but don’t get stuck thinking. Just do.
2. Just start. All the planning in the world will get you nowhere. You need to take that first step, no matter how small or how shaky. My rule for motivating myself to run is: Just lace up your shoes and get out the door. The rest takes care of itself.
3. Forget perfection. Perfectionism is the enemy of action. Kill it immediately. You can’t let perfect stop you from doing. You can turn a bad draft into a good one, but you can’t turn no draft into a good breeze. So get going.
4. Don’t mistake the motion for action. A common mistake. A fury of activity doesn’t mean you’re doing anything. When you find yourself moving too quickly, doing too many things at once, this is a good reminder to stop. Slow down. Focus.
5. Focus on the necessary actions. Clear the distractions. Pick the one most important thing you must do today, and focus on that. Exclusively. When you’re done with that, repeat the process.
6. Move slowly, consciously. Be deliberate. The action doesn’t need to be done fast. In fact, that often leads to mistakes, and while perfection isn’t necessary, neither is making a ridiculous amount of errors that could be avoided with a bit of consciousness.
7. Take small steps. Biting off more than you can kill the action. Maybe because of choking, I dunno. But small steps always work. Minor tiny blows that will eventually break down that mountain. And each step is a victory that will compel you to further successes.
8. Negative thinking gets you nowhere. Seriously, stop doing that. Self-doubt? The urge to quit? Telling yourself that it’s OK to be distracted and that you can always get to it later? Squash those thoughts. Well, OK, you can be distracted for a little bit, but you get the idea. Positive thinking, as corny as it sounds, really works. It’s self-talk, and what we tell ourselves has a funny habit of turning into reality.
9. Meetings aren’t action. This is a common mistake in management. They hold meetings to get things done. Meetings, unfortunately, almost always get in the way of actual doing. Stop holding those meetings!
10. Talking (usually) isn’t action. Well, unless the step you need to take is a presentation or speech or Something. Or you’re a television broadcaster. But usually, talking is just talking. Communication is necessary, but don’t mistake it for actual action.
11. Planning isn’t action. Sure, you need to plan. Do it so you’re clear about what you’re doing. Just do it quickly, and get to the actual action as promptly as you can.
12. Reading about it isn’t action. You’re reading an article about the act. Ironic, I know. But let this be the last one. Now get to work!
13. Sometimes, inaction is better. This might be the most ironic thing on the list, but really, if you find yourself spinning your wheels, or you find you’re doing more harm than good, rethink whether the action is even necessary. Or better yet, do this from the beginning — is it essential? Only do the measure if it is.
All the best,
Speak to you soon.
EMIR xx
